I think that's the best way 2 put it. I won't back down on my statement that she should be paying the same price that he is. U can be older and say she's a big victim who can't think for herself, but i just can't agree with that. I remember being 14. Sure we all develop differently, but i feel at that age, i waz pretty much the same person i am 2day minus the life experience. She is just as guilty as he is. I wasn't justifying anything. That kinda behavior is definitely wrong 2 me. I'm just saying that both parties should be paying. If they both have come outta this better people...then good, that's what this whole episode was for then. But if either of them is up 2 the same kinda thing, then i agree 100% that either or both of them need 2 get help.
Because i didn't watch the tape and never plan 2, i'm not gonna throw accusations and i'm also not gonna defend him. Even if i wanted it, it's 8 years old. Unless this kinda behavior is still going on, u can't punish someone for something so old since none of us has the right 2 judge anyone. And person who has a problem, big or small, should get help, i'll just leave it at that.
Why should a 14 year old girl pay for being sexually abused by an adult? Adults have a level of trust and reponsibility they should uphold. Its like when these female teachers abuse young boys and everyone says its okay and they get off. They are in a position of authority they shouldn't abuse that trust. R.Kelly is a sick individual and the only reason he is not in jail is because of the money he has. 10 years is a light sentence in my opinion.. this isn't a 16 year old and a 14 year old it's a grown ass man!