well i remember the first time i went to my x-boyfriends flat he had BWS, Willennium, MIB, ID4, Made in America, Enemy of The State.....so i thought ooooooh, i could grow to like you lol.....but seriously, i know that he would never have made me choose coz he isn't that kinda guy, i just hope the next guy i fall for isn't a hater, that would just be wierd!!
but to answer the question, cuz i strayed from the point a bit, a real soulmate shouldn't expect you to give up anything you enjoy or that makes you happy.