i definatly know where your coming from ted, i often associate songs with what im going thru. Its something to hold onto and so when u hear something about an artist it just seems to make things in your life worse, bcoz thats the only thing u have right now. well thats what its like for me. When Will said he was gonna quit i took that badly bcoz i was in a bad place in my life, it was like life was taking little shots at me.
i managed to turn it around last week by thinking positivly. i know its difficult to think like that when negative things happen to you, but im sure eventually things will get better. luckily im in a position where i myself can change my life and sort out this little niggiling problem, some people arnt in that position and things are out of thier hands, so all there is to do is keep your head up. Just try and stick with those positive uplifting songs, thats what i did and it helped.