You apparently have a poor grasp of the English language. You may have meant something besides what you posted, but your post was self contradictory.
And to say that some guy's out of that girls league when she should be dating you sounds like complete and utter arrogance with an ignorant attempt at justification.
My fiancee. She is absolutely gorgeous, a former dancer, and not only college educated, but has multiple degrees earning her the title of doctor. When we started dating I was an unemployed college drop out who loved to go out drinking and smoked like a fiend. My house was a mess and I hadn't exercised in a decade. Many people thought she was out of my league and surprised that we where dating. Of course that, much like your view on this, is a shallow description of the situation. That doesn't capture that I'm hella smart and very well read and she values intelligence greatly. It ignores that she thinks I'm a fun person to be around and I can always bring a smile to her face. Most it importantly, it doesn't take into account that I make her feel like she is the most important person on the planet, which, in my eyes, she is.
That just makes me sad and is exactly why I hate the notion of leagues. You're an interesting, funny, beautiful woman who could snag any number of men with Brad Pitt looks.
Exactly