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YOu only see the bad sides because you 'choose' to... think abt it... I was on the WS board... :shakehead: (whooo wee.) shoulders hurt. LOL anyways... I was looking at my profile,...and thought of ur poem when I looked at something I have in my bio... Courage is not the absence of fear, but the realization that there is something far greater than fear... Never give up on your dreams... You must have enough courage to believe that LOVE is much greater and stronger than FEAR. Not the opposite. Fear is not of God, and if you challenge urself to something u think is impossible to accomplish (like an attempt to shrug off jealousy), then ull wander...whats there to be afraid of? Giving unconscious power to jealousy is what has birth your fears into reality... (fear of losing her..and you did) IN other words...you gave power to your jealous emotions which caused your fear to come true..and u lost her... so the problem is NOT fear..but the jealousy that stemmed it... can u see the pic? :2thumbs: but you CAN control it, you just dont know how much power that lies within you innermost self... By saying you can't, you're actually allowing yourself to be held in bondage of doubt, low self esteem and ultimately jealousy... It will take baby steps for you, but not only do u have to start changing your thought patterns to positive, but you have to learn to catch urself when ur starting to doubt urself...and thinking negative... in short...next tyme, don't ask too many questions to point out your insecurities. ok? If she loves you, she will be there for you 100%. If you are doing the "right thing"....TRUST me... it will come to the light, if anything need to...cheating,...etc...etc... but. Don't jeapordize your happiness and cut the life of your relationship short, and before it has reached it's full stage of blossoming ... The only way ur gonna ever be truly happy, and enjoy being in love is to TRY to face your own insecurities...and that begins with trust... Trust in your ability to take control of ur jealousy, trust in your mate, and ultimately trust in God that he has given u power to reject and overcome fear,... Because with God by ur side...what is there to fear? sorry 2 ramble..but oh well... thats just me... :thatsux: but...i liked ur poem, no doubt... lmbo peace, cookie

wow..I think ur doing a good job with promotion ideas...but I cant see ur banners tho... peace, cookie

wow. That was a good explanation, because I would have never look at it that way... Thx... but sometymes that fear is just what makes us lose the one person we love. Instead of being able to better control our jealousy, and enjoying them while we are with them... we wind up letting this level of fear take control of our emotions, and it turns out to be an unhealthy relationship for both of you. In which case, its probably best you went your seperate ways...but hopefully be able to look back at your part in it what winded up as a breakup... They say, the beauty of love is like a flower. We learn to appreciate its beauty when it is in our lives. It goes grows to full blossom, but then it eventually dies,...it has lived out its course in our lives, same as love...we will always cherish the beautiful feeling we had being in love,...but must let it go once it has died... sorry 2 ramble..but i was reflecting on ur situation.. peace, cookie

I liked the concept of what you've put 2gether here, and can relate to the idea of getting over someone and on with ur life...but I was wandering if u could explain the "Fear Is Stronger Than Love"... part ... I was following u clearly, but couldn't quite catch that part... What is that you fear in this situation ? If anyone else understands it, please share ur views... thx, peace, cookie

Thank God that Will has Jada in his life, to clean up his messiness. LOL. j/kiddN. Not to sound rude, but I'm glad that Miss Jada stepped up to the plate and cleared this all up, cuz now alla those chiks with the big $$ signs in their eyeballz will know they can not and WILL not get to play with Jada's teddy bear. LOL... Do ya thang Jada!!! :chuks: hahah :lolsign: peace, cookie

Cris is cool pplz, but I see that bothered JD when Chris talked abt him like that. He prolly should apologize or sumpthin... but I doubt he will, cuz in his mind, its all 'comedy' and abt gettn a laff out of it... peace, cookie

AJ... do u know where is the best deal's on the east coast? Just listenin to ppl talk abt it, makes me wanna get it today. lmbo... peace, cookie

WOW... thats something 2 be proud of... peace, cookie

I couldn't read the whole thing, cuz my comp seems to want 2 freeze...but one line --->> Hatin what I see coming outta influential lips .. believe it or not...this reminds me of one small positive twyst Pep Love brings when he speaks about politicians in "Oh My God" ... :2thumbs: peace, cookie

I still listen to radio, but very seldom. When I first read that, I had mixed feelings abt it, but I guess thats just how the ball rolls. Sony sure has lost quite abit of my respect... peace, cookie

mostly these: no particular order... Hieroglyphics Pep Love Goapele Jill Scott Kenny Lattimore Will Smith JJFP coupla trax off The Magnificant album and these quite a bit less: Beyonce Destiny's Child Mariah Carey peace, cookie

LOL Jonny. I had fun reading that Will is Ill... :2thumbs: peace, cookie

Thankx AJ. I missed it, because I forgot a bt it, and went off to the movie theatre with my sons. dag. I hope I don't get buzy and forget it again... please remind me...if u dont mind... sounds like it was a good show too. Just what I'd expect too... peace, cookie

NO SCRUBS!!!! ~ TLC... a scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me... Man this song is universal language to women and men. Watch out 4 those scrubs sittin in the passenger side,...wanting WHATEVER free ryde they can get! LMBO peace, cookie

ok... understood. peace, cookie

oh ok then... :hmm: thx... keep up the good work edit: wrong color text. lmbo peace, cookie

HEy Snouf...thats a really sweet poem you wrote. I love hearing the sensitive side of a man's heart like that. Nice job... I like that pic in ur sig. Kinda blurry but thats my fault... lmbo peace, cookie

real cute. :2thumbs: What part of England did you say you're in? Just curious. peace, cookie

dump coly come back Big will will stay illy with the track wEst phIlly born and raised And it was crazy to blaze through the maze vIn here for sheer sill feel like the first day You wanna know in the worst way ~still don't make much sense to me... :hmm: what r u tyrna say??? peace, cookie

A few of us talked to Ready Rock C abt how he felt about this awhile back. That was a touchy subject that alot of the fans agreed it was personal business between Will and Ready, so we let it go... peace, cookie

:2thumbs: Thanks guys. It is a poem. I'm not in love tho,... just a reflection of how ppl can impact on us in a positive way, (never forget them) it can trigger a 'spur of the moment' of creativity... (Mos Def not an x ) I was typin as it came 2 me... peace, cookie

TELL ME WHY ~ u shot me gurL... I can ssee it now! lol WEll, I gave my weapon away a coupla years ago..so don't count on me making those headlines. LOL peace, cookie

:yeahthat: I'm a terrible typist... peace, cookie

LOL... I don't have no hard feelings towards Frenetic,... but I laffed at it when I read it again too... cuz I was thinking how after all that, Frenetic and I made headlines, (not sayin its positive)...like that runaway bride did... I wander if we can make a cool million off of it like she did too? :lolsign: jokin... Thats funny Max...but a little correction... "we're arguing and swearing over the "succession" of Lost and Found" :2thumbs: peace, cookie

yep. Thats the pic Wes. haha... I remember g iving u a hard tyme about your big feet. (u knew i was kiddin tho) lmbo and Jimbo... u cute,...and look like ur up 2 something !!! :lolsign: peace, cookie