Yeah, I feel the same way. I used to exclusively listen to harder gangsta rap when younger...although I couldn't relate on any level...It was fun to imagine myself in the situation.
But as I grew older I felt like I wanted more music which I could relate to...so I picked up a taste for people who more accurately potrayed my personality (most of the time at least)...like A Tribe Called Quest,Will,Lupe Fiasco,Kanye, Kweli,Mos etc...I often pick up something if the subject matter is something I can't relate to if it shows good MC skills or good geats...like Jigga, BIG, Some tracks from Puffy's new album,Snoop,Tupac,Wu-Tang,Dr,Dre,Cube etc.
So if don't listen to a lot of mc's who will talk about living their life but the stuff I put on heavy rotation is stuff I can relate to.