sonic1988 Posted March 17, 2004 Report Share Posted March 17, 2004 what is the best way to tell a girl you like her?!?! ask her out or say "I really like you."?? also if a boy friend is in the picture but she still likes you you you wait for a break-up (and after the rebound) or should I still tell her I like her??!?! I :dunno: what to do?!?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DevilsJim89 Posted March 17, 2004 Report Share Posted March 17, 2004 haha...this is kinda tough... well are you friends with her? because if your good friends with her, then telling her that you like her might hurt the friendship. believe me, it happens. I'd wait it out and then go for the rebound then score... :dancingcool: Of course I'm talking basketball here...haha! :bowrofl: :peace: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JumpinJack AJ Posted March 17, 2004 Report Share Posted March 17, 2004 Well, whatever u do, don't make moves while she is with her boyfriend. That only makes things weird and is pretty much guarenteed 2 mess things up, not 2 mention make u look bad. My method with the ladies has alway been, pretty much make them make the 1st move. Cuz u can't go wrong that way. If u make a move and they aren't ready, or simply don't want it, u make them really uncomfortable and screw yourself over bad. If u make her make the 1st move, then she's waited long enuff that it's driving her crazy...ha ha...on top of that, u know it's safe 2 see if there is anything there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fan 4ever Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 yeah AJ is right...make her make the first move..that's what i did...and look at it..me and my girl are togehter for more then 10 months now...and we still going strong...so let her make the first move man! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexywshgirl Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 I think you should always be honest with your feelings. Tell her how you feel without trying to get in the way of her relationship, then let her be. Then at least she knows how you feel and she can decided if the person she is with is really the one for her. Having her know about you liking her could start getting to her and make her realize if she has feelings for you. You only live once so take some chances! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Prince Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Yeah letting girls make the first move is always best, otherwise you can never tell what they're thinking! My last girlfriend, I waited and waited, and so did she until she began dropping massive hints. I waited a bit longer 'till I was certain, then thats when a brotha knew to step in! Haha... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JumpinJack AJ Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Yeah, the main thing is...if u move 2 quick, u can't take it back and things could get messed up or feel akward. If u wait til she make the move or u wait until u know 4 sure it's safe, u know it's all 2 the goody....on top of that, after waiting so long, it feels 100 times better than if u just jumped in2 something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DevilsJim89 Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 come on guys, girls aint nothing but TROUBLE! :afro: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazzy Julie Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 I dont know about this getting girls to make the first move. I mean i would drop hints and stuff that i liked some1 but im too shy to do anymore. makin moves is the guys job. If i were u sonic i would make it obvious 2 her that u like her, c if she seems to feel the same way, if she does go 4 it, i wouldnt wait around 4 her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Just_Like_will Posted March 18, 2004 Members Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 That's right.You should let her make the fisrt move. The same damn last girl I had thuoght I was rapist when I made the first move. If you really like her so bad, maybe you should be sending her roses and love cards that ain't signed. I have never tried that.So I'm not sure if it's gonna work or not. [b]Just don't get yourself beat up[/b] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JumpinJack AJ Posted March 19, 2004 Report Share Posted March 19, 2004 [quote=Jazzy Julie,Mar 18 2004, 09:39 PM]I dont know about this getting girls to make the first move. I mean i would drop hints and stuff that i liked some1 but im too shy to do anymore. makin moves is the guys job.[/quote] OOoooooohhh....she just put us in our place there...ha ha. Maybe my animal magnitism is just so powerful that making females make the 1st move works only 4 me (okay, i'm just being silly). That's usually how i do it tho'....i just hold out until i know it's safe cuz the last thing u wanna do is make yourself look stupid and make somebody else really uncomfortable, cuz it'll be 2 late 2 take it back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
willreign Posted March 19, 2004 Report Share Posted March 19, 2004 it's easy more then u can think... open your mouth and ask and then waite 4 her reaction... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazzy Julie Posted March 19, 2004 Report Share Posted March 19, 2004 ive learnt a lot from this post, maybe thats y i dont have a boyfriend at the mo, coz i dont make the first moves lol. I think at the end of the day no1 wants to make the first move with the fear of being rejected. Maybe u should take a chance, like the man said "nothings worth having if its not worth the fight". :biggrin: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JumpinJack AJ Posted March 20, 2004 Report Share Posted March 20, 2004 This is the 2000's....guys don't need 2 always make the 1st move. Some guys are shy...some guys just take their time. Everybody is different. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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